Welcome to the Digital Spy forums. Forums Recent Rules My Activity. Hey there! Sign In Register. Calien01 Posts: Forum Member. Yesterday evening I accidentally found out that my brother who is now 29 is seeing a girl who is 16 years old. For those who remember or are familiar, this is the brother that was kicked out of our dads house due to his issues with drugs and his temper.
If I was him, and people were creating a fuss over it, I would be pretty peeved. Espresso Posts: 18, Forum Member.
Does your brother pay the slightest attention to anything you say?
If he doesn't then there's no point in you saying anything to him. If you feel you must go to this girl's house and tell her parents that their daughter's new boyfriend is a violent man then it seems fairly likely to me that your brother will get to hear about what you've done.
How do you think that will pan out? I think any sensible adult would not want that. That she is only 16 makes her more vulnerable because she is so young, has little life experiencee, likely immature and naive.
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If she was mine - I would be very concerned. The primary concern here is not the age difference but that a 16 year old is involved with a man with drug and violence issues.
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Wizsister Posts: Forum Member. I would question what a 29 year old man would have in common with a 16year old girl, it certainly raises concerns, but I doubt there's an awful lot the OP can do about it.
Best just to let it fizzle out naturally. So do you advise that the OP take control of the situation and take action that is likely to end the relationship?
I keep asking this becuase we skipping around the advice issue!
I'm really sorry, I'm not being optuse or antagonistic here! Yes there is an age gap, yes there are anger management and drug issues BUT should the OP take action and get involved and affect the outcome of the relationship! So are you advising that the OP take control of the situation and put a stop to the relationship or attempt to stop it?
Might not be legal, but I certainly wouldn't want my 16 year old daughter seeing a 29 year old man with drug and anger issues.
I'm 27 for those who were curious. I don't really know the girl, but we live in a rather small area so I have seen her out and about before.
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One of the girls in the local shop is familiar with her, that's how I found out her age. I dont know the background of these issues as I've not read the OP's other threads on the matter.
What do you propose he does then? If he speaks to the girl, teenagers being teenagers, she'll probably to the exact opposite and it will draw her closer to him.
If the brother is as bad as he says, then he won't listen either.
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So what is the solution here? Getting involved in relationships regardless of how good the intentions is is highly explosive, is never black and white and generally will always backfire!
In my experience!! Anyway, thats my advice, let it land where is falls! WelshHoll Posts: Forum Member.
I agree it does seem odd but it is legal. I don't think you should get involved though, leave that to the girl's family. If they have an issue, they will soon make it known. Keep a close eye on them though and if you think he's violent or whatever towards her then re-assess the situation. Or the other side of the coin being, I ignore it, knowing full well what he is capable of and he hurts her.
At the moment I see it as either I generally keep an eye on things and keep it to myself for the time being, or I tell someone else about my concerns and let them deal with the situation.
Is a 16 old boy dating a 12 year old girl illegal? I'm 12 and I'm dating someone who is My mom isn't okay with this. We haven't done anything sexual. My parents are very protective and it . 16 and dating an 18 year old. Is this illegal? I am 16 and have been dating someone for over a year. He was 17 when we started dating, but is now He is just a little over 2 years . Sorry op - I just remembered he is your brother. I don't mean to be nasty, but I do think it is odd. Maybe his drug issues have affected his judgement - but it is not generally healthy for a 29 year-old to be dating a 16 year-old. You sound like a caring sister - fair play to you for that.
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The adult is a pedo. And wrong. Source s : Met my husband when he was 16 and i was He lied and said he was When i found out i left him and hurt him very badly and almost completely devastated myself.
I should have stayed with him. He's 21 now and we're married and i regret the years we both suffered cos i was afraid of my own shadow and left him despite him making an elaborate 17 pages plan how we can make it work that included what he felt for me.
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May 14, If the 16 year old is the age of consent and the 30 year old isn't predatory, it doesn't have to be bad. If a 30 year old can abide by the campsite rule the 16 year old is less likely to get hurt than by another 16 year doursim.coms are the 30 year old will be the who gets hurt, once the 16 year old grows out of them and leaves them but 30 year olds should be . No. Despite there being only a 4 year age difference, the difference in maturity and mental development is more like decades. A 16 year old is not independent, they are still unsure about their identity, their place in the world, their values and. For many kids, 16 seems to be an appropriate age, but it may be entirely suitable for a mature year-old to go on a date, or to make your immature year-old wait a year .
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