Knowing I had to tread lightly, I told him I thought his brother was attractive, and I wanted to get know him better. I was so shocked that my friend was cool about it! He said he appreciated me being upfront about it and just telling him what was going on. He ended up coming between our friendship, and I don't think it will ever be what it was. I tried to talk to her about it, and put our friendship first again, but it was too late. Tip : When you're in any new relationship, keep yourself aware of your friend's feelings. This especially rings true if that friend is the family member of your new crush!
I can see how it would get tricky and, possibly, messy. What if they break up?
Nov 23, Dating my friend's brother. For one thing, he is younger, and even though we are both adults (he's 20, I'm 25), people tend to think it's weird when the woman is significantly older than the man. Honestly, I feel a bit weird about it myself, but I really love him (and I know he loves me), and I know that the longer the relationship lasts. May 11, But, being almost 10 years younger than Michael was, I felt like I needed to go off on my own for a while. In a lot of ways, dating my best friend's brother was what kept me feeling close to. May 02, So one of my closest friends from high school, her little brother is in the marines and just came back home. Im 26 years old and he is 22 years old, we all grew up together. Any of you ladies that had experiences dating younger men, your comments are most welcomed. May 2, #2. LovingLV Well-Known Member BANNED. 18, 0. Jun 15,
Are you caught in the middle? Make sure the guy in question actually likes you as much as you like him.
Make sure you talk to your bestie first to see how they feel about the possibility of you two dating. Not that you need permission, but definitely consider their feelings and their point of view.
Chances are they know him way better than you do and could possible spare you some heartache. If you decide to date the guy anyway, keep your friend out of your relationship. If you break up down the line, keep the details of the breakup to yourself.
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Jun 26, They think, feel and act differently. Because of that nobody here can tell you how your friend would feel about you dating her younger brother. But there is a pretty good chance that she will be upset if she finds out about the two of you without some warning. Aug 20, Dating a friends brother or cousin can get pretty awkward. Dont know how to deal? These readers give their advice on making it work or not! Author: Macey Hall.
So one of my closest friends from high school, her little brother is in the marines and just came back home. Im 26 years old and he is 22 years old, we all grew up together.
Jan 04, They flirted here and there, but her brother just chalked it up to his younger sister having a little girl crush on one of his friends - until she came of age. I guess I just want to know younger dating friends see it. I've rarely seen a younger guy and friends older girl together in high school. Oh, and they both live 2 houses down from mine. I don't how if that matters too immensely, but yeah. Thanks in advance. It's not like I won't see him a lot, considering he's my brother and all. Share Facebook. Dating one of your best friends little like Discussion in ' Jane Doe Alley ' started by incogneato, May 2,. May 2, 1. So dating of my closest friends from high school, her little brother friends in the marines and just came back home.
We have all known each other for 12 years, and our families are close. So anyhow I never really talked to her little brother until recently, myself being prior military we would always chat about our time in. There was alot of innocent flirting going around on his partand my friends were joking about it.
Now the question is do you think I should talk to my friend about it first to see if she would be okay with me dating her little brother? Also do you think this 4 year age difference would be a problem? I have always dated older men, but right now I just want something thats casual being I just got out of a relationship.
Any of you ladies that had experiences dating younger men, your comments are most welcomed. May 2, 2. May 2, 3. Things can get messy though.
If things get messy it might destroy the relationship between you and your friend. I would keep it moving. May 2, 4.
For me I personally I wouldn't date any of my friends' family members.